truth serum.

tonight i went to a surprise birthday party for one of my clients and there may or may not have been an open bar. i'm just sayin'...

regardless of the above statement i am about to tell you THE TRUTH.

it does not matter if you are a "looker".

it does not matter if he is a "looker".

it does not matter what you wear.

it does not matter what he wears.

it does not matter if everyone else has on jewels that maybe add up to the cost of your house... and you have on thrift store clothes.

it does not matter if you are "high society" (or just rich enough that you think you are).

it does not matter if you can dance.

it does not matter if he can dance.

THE BEST accessory to any outfit is confidence.

and beyond that, i HIGHLY recommend finding a man that will be willing to be the first one to dance a slow song when everyone else in the room is just looking on.

cause the truth is, all of those rich bitches will just *wish* they had a husband who looks at them the way yours looks at you and is willing to dance just because it makes you smile.

(and truth be told, all of those husbands will just *wish* they had a smiling happy, dancing, laughing wife like you instead of that ninny in the corner wishing she could have a bite of birthday cake but abstaining cause it might go to her hips!)

cheers!